I walked into IVF knowing the bare minimum about how the treatment process worked. I hardly Googled it. I’m not sure if I was depressed, overwhelmed, or just over it… probably some of each. But I put one foot in front of the other and followed ACRM’s instructions to call on Day 1 of my next cycle.
Day 1 was over a weekend, so the following Monday, I received an email from Katrina, my ACRM nurse, letting me know next steps:
- I was to start back on birth control pills for 11 days. (This quiets the hormone-makers in the brain so that your cycle can be fully controlled by the clinic/IVF meds)
- I was to set up a financial consultation to discuss IVF costs and payment. (ACRM expects upfront payment for the balance not covered by insurance)
- I was to schedule an HSG and trial transfer appointment, and initial bloodwork. Joe had an initial bloodwork appointment as well. (This HSG/trial transfer deal deserves a post of its own, but essentially the point is to 1) look at your uterus and ovaries with a small camera to make sure everything is good, no blockages or lining troubles and 2) make sure that there’s no funny zigs or zags on the way to your uterus that could cause issues during embryo transfer time)
- I was to sit tight and wait until the full IVF “protocol” was sent over in a few days. (Ah, the protocol. More on that later.)
After getting these initial instructions, I was definitely excited. It felt like things were happening. Like we were moving forward with a really good option, and a great medical support team. (I also like instructions and to-do lists, so that helped :-)) I couldn’t wait to get started for real.